After i'v become a parent i think very differently. I would do everything for my child, i would kill if i have to! It seems to me that the error of those parents in the USA is that they give freedom to their children so easily and do not interfere in their problems. But as parents they have to do it! How will you know that your child has a problem if you allow easy access to the Internet over which you have no control, if you will allow after school to slammed the door of his room, shut in her, angry and sad, without you knowing what problem is at the school, etc. You need to track your child's behavior and not always attribute his behavior to "puberty" . It makes me sad every time when i watch video on You Tube posted by girl or boy who is abused and bullied at school. And i want to help, but i alone can't do anything. Parents should pay more attention to their children! Help your children, do not wait until they solve the problem, and you see that often they do is taking their life. Is that the solution??? I do not know how it is with you, but i know that if my daughter is going to be bullied in school by other kids, very soon they will be "acquainted" with me, whether in good or bad light, depends on them :) Parents talk to your children, regularly, and help them without having to ask for your help. I do not know whether you will agree with me, but i think like that, and that's it!